Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Bucket of Memories




Today was a designated day for reorganizing kitchen cabinets.  It's a basic chore that we all have to do from time to time. Over the last 38 years of my married life it was more likely to happen when we were moving out of one home into another.  My husband and I are officially ‘empty nesters’ and I thought it time to clear out all the things we don’t need, don’t use or just needed to be thrown away.
I climbed on the stool to reach high over the stove and removed the bucket.  Before I opened the lid I remembered that this white 1 ½ qt. metal bucket was a birthday gift one year from a co-worker.  I think it was filled with specialty popcorn and has birthday greetings on the side.  I had re-purposed as I often do and determined it was potential fire and waterproof (some what) and thus used it to put in receipts that may come in handy one day when my insurance company may ask for proof of personal items in the event of a claim.

Don’t roll your eyes, yet!  I worked for an insurance company for 15 years and have some knowledge of claim procedures.  I have been accused of being a ‘what-if’ this happens person.  (fires/hurricanes do happen) I’ve come to learn that it takes a ‘what-if’ attitude to be a good fiction writer.  It shows imagination. Can I get an Amen? Ends up the bucket did a good job of protecting my receipts some dating as far back as 1983.  Though I don’t think it would work today because they’re using disappearing ink on receipts these days. 
Those receipts were like looking in an old photo album conjuring memories of years past.  One receipt from Brendles, a chain store that carried anything from jewelry to small appliances was dated December 1989 when I purchased Barbie dolls for our then nine-year old daughter.  Maybe I should have invested in Mattel stock as Barbies that cost 9.99 in 1989 now cost 24.99.  I just recently passed those 24 year old dolls to her daughter and our five-year old granddaughter.  Time does fly.

One receipt caught my attention as it was dated October 18, 1997.  That was my birthday which normally would be a celebratory day.  When I looked closer the receipt was for an item marked ‘Urn’ and I remembered that Saturday because I would have been spending the day at my parent’s having a delicious meal and birthday cake that my step mom always prepared. Instead I was shopping for an urn in which to place my dad’s ashes whose life had ended abruptly.
Another receipt from Carolina Custom Golf dated July 23, 1988 was for Lady Max Dunlop Golf Clubs.  This was my first decent set of clubs that I enjoyed when I was on the Ladies Golf Team at work.  We played nine holes every Thursday after work weather permitting.  It was a great way to relax and get in some exercise with friends.  I was not as good as the more seasoned members but I did improve over the years.  Some of those on the team have since graduated to a heavenly course.  I still enjoy playing golf with my husband and hope to do more after he retires.

There is a receipt for a Howard Miller mantel clock I purchased for my husband for Christmas of 1996 from Classical Clocks.  I was so excited to give him this clock which was a little extravagant for our budget at the time.   It’s just a battery operated clock but with nice woodwork.  A few years ago the chime started getting crackly and I put it on a top shelf and just pulled it out last week determined to take it to the local clock store for repair.
And lastly was one receipt dated July 24, 1996 when I purchased school clothes for our son who was starting kindergarten at a local Christian Academy.  He is our youngest and last to leave the nest.  He is six-foot tall, beard-growing, college graduate, handsome young man living just 3 miles from the hospital where he made his debut. Where have you found unexpected memories?

(You still have time to win a copy of  the book "God's Provision in Tough Times" just leave me a comment on my blog by 9-25-13.)


Tuesday, September 10, 2013

God's Provision

 
Fall is just around the corner. And I eagerly await the beauty of the fall leaves, the brisk morning air and how the woods around our home take on a distinct woodsy scent of the season. There's also ACC Football to enjoy with lots of rivalry in my area. Or more local, high school football. If I'm fortunate perhaps a trip to the mountains which parades the season's glory from their valley to the highest peak for all to see. Soon neighbors will be displaying their fall regalia of pumpkins, colorful door wreaths and Halloween d├ęcor.  It's a season that passes much too soon for me. 


As we enjoy the season it may not be a joyful season for others.  You probably know someone who has lost a loved one, dealing with a sickness, wondering how they will provide food for their families, battling depression, a marriage that needs healing or just needs to know someone cares.  So as you view God's beauty be open to how you can share your bounty, a kind word, donate to a local food pantry or take time to write a note to encourage. Be open to share the 'joy' that is in you and how they can have true joy even in tough times.

You may know others who are going through tough financial times or are unemployed. May I recommend a book that you can share with someone who needs encouragement or for yourself.  "God's Provision in Tough Times" is 25 personal true stories written by others who have struggled in times of financial and unemployment crisis. Some are award winning authors in their genre. Whether struggles are in those areas or some other area the reader will gain an appreciation for the vulnerability as each person shares from their heart that life has not always been rosy.

We all have or will have valley moments. This book shares hope and how faith got them through times of despair that we all encounter at some time in our life. This book is written from a Christian worldview.  Cynthia Howerter and La-Tan Roland Murphy have done a wonderful job compiling stories that include their own struggles. This is an encouraging book for anyone and especially those who may be struggling during this time of high unemployment.  This book is available at Amazon.com and CBD.com
 
And you have an opportunity to win a FREE COPY of  "God's Provision in Tough Times".  Just leave a comment here in response to "God's Provision" posting and you will be entered in the drawing.  I will select one name from those who respond. (one response per person) You have until September 25th to be entered.  If you become a new 'follower member' of my blog and write a response I will enter your name twice. I will post the winner after the 25th on my blog.

So pull out your sweaters, put away your flip flops and enjoy God's gift of the season.

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Blue Ridge in 2013


Have you dreamed of writing to publish but didn’t know where to begin?  My journey began in 2006 by reading about the craft of writing.   The internet is a great resource of information.  I researched and found endless websites about writing, books on writing and blogs about writing from writers or those in the publishing industry.  Besides reading about the craft you can join national and local writing associations.  My interest was writing Christian Fiction so I joined ACFW (American Christian Fiction Writers). And I highly recommend ACFW as it is inexpensive and an invaluable resource.

Through ACFW and conversation with author, Susan May Warren it became apparent the next step was to attend a writer’s conference.  I was thankful to find there was a great conference right in my own state.  I attended Blue Ridge Mountain Christian Writers Conference in 2010.  I read information about what to expect at writing conferences and how to prepare.  Who would have thought there were etiquette rules to attending a writing conference?  For example, don’t pitch your novel idea to an agent who has retreated to the rest room.  I would assume that is just plain good manners but apparently some anxious writers have been so bold!
Last year’s conference was special because my favorite author and mentor Susan May Warren traveled from the midwest to teach at the conference. So fast forward four years to my third Blue Ridge Conference experience which was in May. I blogged about the conference last year but will recap a few things.  You arrive on Sunday and check in.  For newbies they offer a tour of the facility which helps you to get acclimated to your surroundings.  And because it is in the mountains you want to wear comfortable shoes.  I probably put in a few miles that week walking between the classes, meals and our residence.
You have sessions as a group that include introduction of the faculty, announcements, worship time and speakers ending the week with a banquet where awards are given for submitted works. The hardest decision is which classes to attend. They have about 25 classes going on at one time and they are repeated throughout the week.  There are also continuing classes where you attend each day at the same time with the same instructor. There could be anywhere from 5-25 students in a class.  Depending on where you are in your writing career may determine what classes you want to take.  The conference also covers many genres of writing.  Some attend to learn how to write articles, devotionals, Sunday School curriculum, homeschool curriculum, fiction, non-fiction, poetry or screen writing. 
The first year on the spur of the moment I took two classes on writing articles which led to me writing feature stories for my local newspaper when they accepted my first story.  So you never know where your writing journey will take you.  This year I found that I was more comfortable and less intimated with my conference experience.  I felt more focused and gleaned a lot of information to pour over until next year’s conference. 
It was great to connect with friends that I met previously and make new acquaintances.  It’s also rewarding to see how others have progressed through their writing journey to publication.  It’s an encouragement to see others grow and to celebrate with them.  One such person was Lisa Carter, who I met in 2010. She has two books coming out this year. Check out the book trailer for “Carolina Reckoning” at LisaCarterAuthor.com  which debuts this month. Lisa also has several events in the area; Barnes & Noble (Cary Commons), Tues. Aug. 20 @ 7 PM in Cary, NC and at the Lifeway Store on Capital Blvd. in Raleigh, NC on Aug. 31 from 11-1 PM.
Another friend Cynthia Howerter, I met at the conference in 2010 co-wrote with La Tan Murphy “God's Provision in Tough Times” 25 True Stories of God’s Provision During Unemployment and Financial Despair which was just released. The stories are written by several people I’ve met at Blue Ridge of which some are faculty. My long-time friend and writing buddy Felicia Bridges also contributed her own story in this book. The book is available at Amazon and CBD.  I will post a review soon.
May you find Words that Inspire!
(The photo above was taken at the banquet with Dr. Dennis Hensley of Taylor University. I had the privilege of attending his classes.  He’s a prolific writer, teacher, awesome speaker and an Army Veteran who served his country in Vietnam.)

Monday, July 8, 2013

Stay Tuned


I apologize for being away. It's hard to believe that over a year has passed since I updated my writing activity. That's partly because there was not much activity. I've been away working full time as a Circulation Manager for a newspaper and the last year I was caring for my sister who battled cancer. She lost that battle in November.

I'm now self-employed by choice and no more hour commute to work. Not that I'm generating income at this point, but I am working on my novel and some other small projects. And as I've learned it's a long and slow process to publication. This will be a short update and the next post I'll let you know all about my third year attending the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference this May. I will also share next time about some of my friends who have debuted their books.

May you find Words that Inspire!


Daphne Woodall

Sunday, September 16, 2012

Southern Exposure


While I have not had time for writing lately I’m inspired by my writing friends I’ve made both as a member of ACFW and through the Blue Ridge Mountain Christian Writers Conference who seem to be putting out books right and left. It seems quick from my point of view but I know each and every one of them have put in long hours of writing and editing of their books.

I thought I’d share a few of those with new books or about to be released books. My last blog update was about Marcia Moston’s book; “Call of A Coward: The God of Moses and the Middle-Class Housewife”. I met Marcia at my first BRMCWC in 2010. She had finished her book then and was waiting to get it published. I enjoyed getting to know her and found her to be very engaging. Read my blog to learn more about her book that was released in August through Thomas Nelson Publishers. Marcia made a move in the right direction as she now lives in SC. I just posted a review on Amazon of her book.

I believe it was in 2011 that I was in Boone visiting our son who attends ASU that another writer, Alice Wisler was doing a book signing with author, Marybeth Whalen at the local Christian bookstore. Alice is from Durham and I wanted to support my local writers so I made a point to go and that’s where I met Marybeth who had just released “The Mail Box”. I got a signed copy of her book and Alice’s’ “Hatteras Girl”. The Mail Box is written with the town of Sunset Beach as the location and a great story. I even had an opportunity to see Sunset Beach first hand when we vacationed nearby.

I thoroughly enjoyed her writing and so when I heard she was releasing another book; “The Guest Book” which is also set in Sunset Beach I was eager to read it. Marybeth graciously provided me a copy and I must apologize that I started on the book and then life happened. Full time work has greatly hindered my reading time. But it hasn’t hindered me from collecting a few books for future reading.

One such book by BRMCWC founder,Yvonne Lehman who lives in the mountains of NC not far from Ridgecrest was released this year titled “Hearts that Survive” A novel of the Titanic. I enjoyed spending some time with Yvonne around the dinner table and in her class at the conference. Her life should be a book. And because of her vision for the BRMCWC many writers have learned their craft and published many books that we enjoy today. I was fortunate to have an appointment with Yvonne while at the conference to discuss the book I’m currently working on and she was very encouraging. I had a little fun with her jesting about the ‘Violin Murder’ I wrote based on her keynote speech that week.

While at the conference this year I was pleased that Todd Starnes of Fox News Radio returned as a keynote speaker. His southern charm and wit makes for an engaging personality. But he has heart as well. I loved his book “They Popped My Hood and Found Gravy on the Dipstick” that made for side splitting moments with my roommate at the 2010 BRMCWC. And this year was not disappointing either as he has released, “Dispatches from Bitter America” A Gun Toting, Chicken Eating Son of a Baptist's Culture War Stories. His writing is entertaining and interesting as he shares from the inside of his world at Fox News.

Wherever Todd is at conference you can be sure he is surrounded by people who enjoy his political humor and perspective. I’ll share a little secret with you Todd is working on his first fiction book which I’m sure will be hilarious.

My friend Lisa Carter who I met in 2010 and lives in Raleigh, received her first book contract while at the 2012 conference. Her book, “Aloha Rose” will be released in November 2013. Now you see how long it takes to go from writing to publishing. It will be part of the Quilts of Love Series published by Abingdon Press. I’m looking forward to reading her work. There are many more I could mention but will have to save it for another post. Happy Reading!

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Call of a Coward


I’ve finished reading the soon-to-be-released book by Marcia Moston titled “Call of a Coward”. If I had been called and written the book, it would have been titled “Call of a Bigger Coward” because I would have told God he misdialed if he had called me to leave my comfortable, secure home in the U.S. to serve in a foreign land. But that’s why he created people like Marcia.

Marcia and her husband, Bob are led to Guatemala as missionaries. I’m not sure they really planned to be missionaries, but the opportunity arose and off they went, well maybe Marcia was still holding onto the front door post. I met Marcia at my first Blue Ridge Mountain Writers Conference in 2010 where she won an award for this very story that had yet to be published. She is warm, friendly and engaging. It was great to get to see her again upon my return to the same conference two months ago at Ridgecrest.

Whether you are familiar with a missionary lifestyle or not you will enjoy “Call of a Coward” which will be released by Thomas Nelson Publishers on August 7th. You can pre-order her book through major stores like Amazon, CBD and Barnes & Noble. I could relate some to Marcia’s story. The church that my husband and I attend is overflowing with families being called into missions. Of course it helps that there is a prominent seminary in our hometown. It is amazing to be surrounded by so many families that are willing to go onto foreign soil to spread the gospel.

One such family, the Crosland’s with whom my husband and I became friends with through our ‘small group’ are fairly new to the mission field. They journeyed with their children over a year ago to Papua New Guinea and they asked us to be their Gatekeepers. We support them through prayer, financially and keep the church family informed of needs as well as encouraging them while they serve so far from home. And I still feel inadequate in that role but I get to do it from the comfort of my home. My husband had the opportunity to travel to Papua New Guinea a year ago this month to work alongside the Crosland’s for three weeks. As the wife left behind; I was very concerned for my husband’s travel, staying healthy and returning safely. The 3 days of travel to get there would have been a feat for me since I do not like to fly. I do sound like a coward, don’t I? You can read more of his adventure in PNG via my August 8, 2011 blog post.

Reading “Call of a Coward” gives a true picture of a missionary life. Marcia tells about her experience through words that are so descriptive you feel as if you are there with her. She shares her thoughts, fears, prayers and about the relationships she developed with the Mayan people. It’s riveting and touching as she opens her heart to share her journey from a reluctant missionary to a determined one.
Faith is the foundation that supports a missionary through the struggles, concerns and provisions that gives them the strength to serve.

I admire those that have that kind of faith and adventuresome spirit. Missionaries leave the comfort and safety of life in the states to serve people of different cultures, languages, live on an income that is well below American standards and without the modern conveniences that we have become accustomed to for many decades. And many have children with them as they serve like Marcia. If you enjoy adventure, traveling or would like to know more about missions you can do it from the comfort of your cozy chair in your cool home while sipping some sweet ice tea and read “Call of a Coward”. Learn more about my friend and author at http://marciamoston.com.



Sunday, July 1, 2012

"Facebook Finds the Writer Within"


What is it about Facebook that so many people are drawn to join? It’s a way of communicating your opinions, ideas and life experiences. You select who your audience is depending on who you add as a ‘Friend’ or even make it available to the ‘public’. Within reason you can publish photos and words of your own choosing.

In many ways it’s similar to writing a book, article or story. You write based on your experiences and interests. As a writer, you somewhat select your audience based on the readers of your particular genre and you’ll have some who will read your writing because they know you personally or know your friends. In writing your desire is to entertain, inform, influence and keep your reader reading.

Who knew that Facebook would become the entity that it has. Companies use it as a way to promote their service or products? They want you to hit the “Like” button which says that you agree with them, their philosophy or their product. And when you post to your Facebook page you are promoting yourselves in a way. You strive to have readers read your post and comment, right? It can also be a way to promote your causes, whether it’s “Save the Whales” or “Cure for Cancer” for example.

So perhaps you didn’t join Facebook to become a writer. But you are writing and people are reading. Writing fiction is a way to convey the passions, beliefs, interests of your characters that help the reader get to know them better. My challenge is to spend more time writing my novel. I will continue to follow fellow writers on Facebook to see how their writing journey is going, to be encouraged as they reach pivotal points in their writing career and the opportunity to encourage them as well.

Is there a writer within you that you'd like to develop on a more intentional level?